(Acts of Service) is floored when his wife says "You never show me you love me. This would be why a husband who does yard work, dishes, car maintenance, etc. Often, we tend to give love in the languages we are most fluent in, which usually ends up being the languages that fill up our love tank. These five languages are Gifts, Words of Affirmation, Quality of Time, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. Author Gary Chapman in his book The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate believes everyone has a love tank, and that tank is filled by different love languages. By Eleanor on DecemHow's your relationship with your mate? Your children? Your parents? Your siblings? It may be a matter of the state of the "love tank". The author also believes that focusing intently on speaking the love languages will rekindle relationships where people don't even seem to like each other anymore. So, you have to learn to speak your partner's love language. The problem is most people love how they want to be loved, and that doesn't tend to align with how their partner wants to be loved. Your love language is the way that you most feel loved and cared for. The main idea behind this book is that just as people have unique personality preferences, we all have unique preferences for what we find satisfying and motivating when it comes to love.
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